Hosting a small, formal dinner party is a bit intimidating for some people because of the rules on how to set-up their table. More often than not, these rules only complicate things that everyone becomes too cautious about the rules and they forget to enjoy their dinner. If this is your first time hosting a small and formal dinner party, don’t worry – it’s not as complicated as you think.
Keep it Simple
One of the biggest mistakes for first time formal dinner hosts is on thinking too much of the rules. They scour the internet to find different rules that they are often confusing and even contradictory. Do not think too much on what should be done. These rules in table setting were made for practicality so that guests will not have any trouble reaching for the things they need during dinner.
Plates and Bowls
Without looking too much into specifications, here’s a very simple rule on how to set-up plates in a formal dinner: plates should be placed in order based on size where the bottom plate is the biggest. You’ll notice that formal dinner starts with smaller plates and you change the plate as you progress to the main course which will require the biggest plate. The bowl should be on top of the plate as you’ll first deal with the soup in a formal dinner.
Spoons, Forks and Knives
Forks should be on the left side of the plate while spoons and knives should be on the right side of the plate (knives are next to the plate). The order of knives, spoon and forks are also the same with the plates: the biggest spoon and fork should be the one nearest to the plate. The knives’ blade should be facing the plates.
Glasses and Drinkware
Glasses should be placed on the tip of the knives. The glass for water is placed nearest the knife. Other water goblets should be placed a bit farther from the water glass.
Don’t worry too much about water goblets. If the party is not too formal (especially in smaller parties) use regular glasses for drinking water.
Napkins
Folding napkins can be a bit tricky if this is your first time. But thanks to the internet, there are literally hundreds of videos and articles that can teach you in different types of folding. Remember to keep it simple to quickly prepare for the party. The simplest napkin folding is the rectangular fold.
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